Sorry for the lack of updates people. I've been busy and lazy. College life is hard to juggle with especially when you're dating and you have assignments on your shoulders waiting to be completed. Its not easy and its upsetting when you have to do everything earlier. Oh well..
Remember back in the days when your dad pick up a toy and gave it a name and instantly that becomes your best friend? You would never question the reality of it. Instead, you accept it as it is. It has an identity and it relates to you. You talk to it even if it doesn't speak to you. You love it because you believe it has an identity.
And as days go by you grow out of that toy and you realise that the toy does not talk and isn't alive. You realise that your problems gets bigger than than just talking to a toy. You grow out of it and realise you don't know yourself. You find ways to fill up that empty space in your soul because you don't know who exactly you are. You don't have an identity. Therefore, you become anything that feels pleasing to you. Being emo? YEAP. Being vain? YEAP. These tragic changes gives you the delusion that whatever you do is really who you are. Truth is, is it really you? Just because you're comfortable with it doesn't mean it really is you.
Through these influences you find role models that you want to be. Through movies, online videos and all the other influences you can get access of. Not too soon, that becomes you. You want to be that person. You found your 'Identity'.
You taste changes as you age. Its true. But that dream doesn't go away. You would always remember that dream that you have for yourself to be a particular person doing a particular thing. Now the question is, people always say 'Your destiny is in your hands'. Its true too. However have you ever thought about the reality of your life? Have you ever given much thought about the truth in your life apart from all your dreams?
Its true, to dream big is the first step of success. Ever wondered how you're ever going to achieve your dream if you do not have the resources to achieve it? Want to be a movie star? How?
Of course not many people have such outrageous dreams. Some people have smaller dreams which could possibly be achieved but that doesn't happen to everyone. Ever wondered what kind of plans does God have for you? It is your dream but ever wonder what kind of plans does the great divine Him have for you?
Not a lie, been there and done that. I had a dream and I wanted to be that person so badly. Unfortunately my reality shot my wings down. I couldn't fly even when I believe I could.
So take a step back. Think about what are your challenges are in order for you to achieve your dreams. Weigh them down and do a little check list to see which matters more to you. Remember, you can have more than one dream but you are only a person with one pair of hands and one brain. You can dream to go as far as you dream to be but you're still dreaming if you don't have the resources to bring you there. So think about it and don't let yourself regret when the time comes.
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