Many times while I was growing up I notice myself falling for the fancy the guy. Those who make you nervous, excited and happy. Their action and reaction makes you look so stupid but yet you are so thrilled to be with them. Yes teenage girls, I'm talking about that guy you stared at during classes regardless of the venue. :) That one you stalk every status updated, his last seen on whatsapp, and favourite every tweet he tweets. Yea that one.
Truth is, that is a great experience and no point following what the others advise you not to. It is your life and therefore you should go and experience the heartbreak, the tears and the fear of falling in love again. Only then you will learn how to grow up and open your eyes before you make another decision in life to commit to someone. Only then you will learn the true value of choosing the right person to commit to.
Yeah, I get that people rather hear the danger before they experience it but truth is, even if you know everything you'd still make that decision regardless of what they say. Simply because, you are blinded by your emotions. So why do you care so much about what other people say? Why do you care to hear if people want to say you are stupid, you deserve better, he will never want you or rather he's already taken? THOSE ARE ALL TRUTH but the thing is you wont care because you choose to live by the moment hoping things will change.
Having hope is great and it is what drives you. Without hope, people only live physically. That is not what we want right? We want something to look forward to in life and that is why we fall in love. Want something to have our back. We want someone to be there to accept us no matter the changes.
Bottom line is, you are the person who will lead yourself. Where you go is all depending on yourself. If you choose the difficult path, a difficult journey shall you be granted. If you choose an easy way out, an easy journey shall you be granted. You will still reach the finish line regardless of how many mistakes you made or how many times you fall.
You may choose to live a life guided by God or you may not. That is entirely up to you and you are entitled to that free will.
So, go and gain the experience that will change your life.
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