So my parents have been telling me about this Malaysian couple posting their sex acts online.My mom is getting a real hoo haa about it and keeps reminding me my priorities in life.I guess it is really shameful in our asian culture?Everyone seem to be judging them.
Personally,I do not think that what they are doing is out of the norm.I am pretty sure many people have seen even worst.The only difference is that they are Asians in Malaysia and we judge them.I am not racist here,I am just trying to express the point where they are doing something new that we Asians from the East don't do publicly.Hence they are getting the attention they want.
Its not about what they do,its about what happens next.We cannot judge them actually because they are legally old enough to do what they want.We are judging their selflessness that brought shame to their family.It is not something to be proud of but it sure is a brave thing that they are doing.
In my opinion,I am not ashamed of what they did but I am ashamed for their family.I am ashamed for them because they carry the culture and they cannot move on.It will hurt them because every Asian parent thinks that their child are the best.I don't know about others but my parents always think that I am the best of the best.Asian parents have a lot of expectations on their child and hope for their best.In this case,the both of them might have crushed their parents' expectations on them.Thus,they are very much in pain.
The both of them are very brave and courageous.Some people say that their future are coming to an end but lets just give them a positive side.Maybe they can be real active porn stars?Or after things died down,they can start their new lives again?There are many possibilities for things to happen so let's not conclude so early.
Once again,we should reflect on ourselves.If you're a parent,count your blessings that you are still able to walk out of the streets not having people judging you.Love your child and most of all show them.Appreciate every single detail of their achievement because its not easy to live by the Asian culture.It really need a lot courage and humiliation because we are living in the 21st century.Generation gap only exist when you do not appreciate their small achievements.
If you are a child of a family,thank God for your parents are letting you stay in their house and are not planning to throw you out anytime soon.Love your parents and try your best to not hurt them.They have worked really hard to feed you till your ass is big enough to sit on an adult chair.Be grateful.Asian parents love to criticize,not because they think you're shit,it is because they think you can do better.Asian parents also often remind you of your mistakes.Yes,it is annoying but they are just trying to tell you not to repeat them.History is always a lesson.
Sincerely,
The Asian kid
ps: If the couple is reading this,I am not judging you.I think both of you are really brave and you are sure of what consequences you're going to face.Both old enough to decide for yourself.So,all the best.
Personally,I do not think that what they are doing is out of the norm.I am pretty sure many people have seen even worst.The only difference is that they are Asians in Malaysia and we judge them.I am not racist here,I am just trying to express the point where they are doing something new that we Asians from the East don't do publicly.Hence they are getting the attention they want.
Its not about what they do,its about what happens next.We cannot judge them actually because they are legally old enough to do what they want.We are judging their selflessness that brought shame to their family.It is not something to be proud of but it sure is a brave thing that they are doing.
In my opinion,I am not ashamed of what they did but I am ashamed for their family.I am ashamed for them because they carry the culture and they cannot move on.It will hurt them because every Asian parent thinks that their child are the best.I don't know about others but my parents always think that I am the best of the best.Asian parents have a lot of expectations on their child and hope for their best.In this case,the both of them might have crushed their parents' expectations on them.Thus,they are very much in pain.
The both of them are very brave and courageous.Some people say that their future are coming to an end but lets just give them a positive side.Maybe they can be real active porn stars?Or after things died down,they can start their new lives again?There are many possibilities for things to happen so let's not conclude so early.
Once again,we should reflect on ourselves.If you're a parent,count your blessings that you are still able to walk out of the streets not having people judging you.Love your child and most of all show them.Appreciate every single detail of their achievement because its not easy to live by the Asian culture.It really need a lot courage and humiliation because we are living in the 21st century.Generation gap only exist when you do not appreciate their small achievements.
If you are a child of a family,thank God for your parents are letting you stay in their house and are not planning to throw you out anytime soon.Love your parents and try your best to not hurt them.They have worked really hard to feed you till your ass is big enough to sit on an adult chair.Be grateful.Asian parents love to criticize,not because they think you're shit,it is because they think you can do better.Asian parents also often remind you of your mistakes.Yes,it is annoying but they are just trying to tell you not to repeat them.History is always a lesson.
Sincerely,
The Asian kid
ps: If the couple is reading this,I am not judging you.I think both of you are really brave and you are sure of what consequences you're going to face.Both old enough to decide for yourself.So,all the best.
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