I think as time passed by so quickly and technology has been so amazingly great to us,we have slowly learnt that attraction is more of a sense of sight compared to a feeling. Attraction can be such a big word if you search it up but then I guess the meaning of attraction that I have grew up learning about humans were more towards physical but less of emotional attraction?
I grew up learning that attraction means big eyes,double eyelids,high nose,high cheek bone and sexy lips.Personally,I think there are people who look like that but I don't think there are many of them.I guess we should cherish looking at those beautiful people before they get too old to look at? :P Haha kidding,some aged people looked great too. :)
Like her,Xiaxue.Personally I like her face because she has this really sexy look but at the same time she looks very gentle and sweet as well.To me,she is probably perfect and she is really down to earth and brave. :)
Of course,beauty is great.Everyone loves beauty and everyone wants to be perfect.Which is why technology comes in place.Need a better nose?Nose job is here to save you.Want a double eye lid?There are more than one eyelid surgeries that you can go for.These are really great technology and I am really proud of it but I am not stressing on physical attraction for this post for today so we'll mention it next time alright?
I think over the years people have actually forgotten or maybe we can say neglected emotional attractions.What makes a girl/woman beautiful?Is it her eyes,nose or her mouth?Of course that is very important as well but what is the one attraction that money cannot buy?You can have all the best features on your face and of course you may be able to attract the greatest man in the world but what keeps the man well attracted for 50 years?
Over the years of growing up,I have gone through episodes where I desperately want to achieve a certain look trying to look like some beautiful people.I think at some point I did succeed but then at the end I realised that it was really not worth it.Those people who look so beautiful actually have gone through so much just to achieve such look.They have fought well and hard to look beautiful for themselves in spite of being mocked being fake and a monster because of plastic surgery.
Then there is me.I knew that I am not going to go that far to achieve what they have achieved so why am I trying so hard?I will never be able to look like them in the end anyways.I am too chicken shit to even cut myself so why oh why am I trying so hard?
Bottom line is,attraction again comes from you.You have to feel attracted to yourself in order for others to be attracted to you.I mean who are you kidding?How do you expect a man to love you for 50 years having self esteem issues?I mean there are such people but again,not many.But hey,don't worry because somewhere across this globe,there is this man that would be attracted to everything about you.He would adore you and love you.He is God sent. :) So be patient because when the timing is right he will be here. :)
Lastly,there are more than 6 billion people in the world which comes in all shapes and sizes with all kinds of features.All are made by God and all were worthy enough for Jesus to die for.If you want to talk about yourself being ugly.Come on, you're like just a small fraction of the 6 billion people and if you have ever learnt anything about humans its always majority that wins but you're just a minority of those. :PP Ngek...so at the end,you're still beautiful. :))
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