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Feelings

Sometimes, feelings can really misjudge the way we see things. I know because I have been facing the exact same thing too and it honestly hurts just to think back and feel sorry for the things that you cannot control because sometimes feelings are so strong and misleading. If you know what I mean? :) 

I remember the day where feelings just suddenly misguided me into thinking I like my best friend more than just a friend. It was tough and hurtful knowing that your best friend does not feel the same way. Its hurtful because those feelings gives you this anticipation and hope that maybe things will change and it is very hurtful to wait and wait without confirmation. Well in fact, there shouldn't be any. 

Days will go by, seconds will continue to strike on the clock and one fine day you will finally have the courage to fight back your feelings and put your mind straight and accept the fact that waiting is not the best solution you can have. You move on and realise that it was a great idea and a good decision and life being life, everything will have to be a drama. Your best friend will go through the same crisis where he thinks he likes you more than a friend and the whole story happens again, just a different character.

Being you, you will try your very best to send indirect body languages to show you're not interested. Usually, due to the influence of feelings, he will not understand your body languages. 

The story doesn't end here. One fine night you will meet a person who attracts you in a special way. Think like you do, feel like you do. You will again fall into the trap of trying to get this person out of your head. Again, due to the influence of feelings that are misguiding you, you will find yourself unable to stop being aware of his whereabouts. You will feel slimy and disgusting where you are constantly interested about everything that person does. And if he happen to be the person who doesn't feel the same way, you're back to square one again. Lonely, empty and afraid. 

So before you rest your feelings on someone or even anything, make sure you are able to fight back your feelings and put your mind straight if all else fails.Don't let those feeling mess with your daily routine. Since there is a saying that if you don't give, you don't gain, you should really beware of what you're investing into especially when you are not able to control your feelings the right way. :) 

It might have been broken in the least you have expected, but at least now you have the chance to take care of it. Don't let your feelings break your heart. Totally not worth it. :) 


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