So recently I have slackened in blogging some encouraging stuff for you guys to read.All I have done was just study, watch movie, do a review of it, add more pictures and sleep. I am so sorry, some small matters have been happening in my life which bothers me. With all my heart I want to blog about something positive but I can't find my inspiration to say anything encouraging. :(
So recently in an English Language class, my teacher wrote down the passed year questions of the English SPM papers starting from year 1997 all the way to 2012. It was all one word essays. As far as I can remember they were Stars,Food,Friends,Cleanliness,Home and ect and our job as students in exams are always nevertheless to impress the markers. My teacher pointed out how important it was to be unique in our essay. It is all about impression writing.
Uniqueness is such a harsh and scary word. Believe it or not,we are very afraid of being unique. :) For example, let's just say we meet a person with 11 fingers. For you to look at that person with 11 fingers already scares you. You may not say it out but in your head, you go "So weird.". As for the person who has 11 fingers would feels afraid and most probably ashamed of themselves.In their minds they go "I wish I was normal. ". You can deny as much as you can but that is the truth.We do judge no matter how hard we try not to.
If you really have 11 fingers,who said 11 fingers was not normal? Were we not made unique by God?
Over the years,we have gone through many many episodes of trying to be NORMAL. What is normal and who determined who is NORMAL? According to Google, Normal means typical or expected. I think I can conclude that NO HUMAN IN THIS WORLD IS NORMAL. We are always unexpected am I not right? From the era where we were nomads, we have survived and upgraded ourselves. Instead of living in caves and eaten by animals, we live in big built houses and we domesticated most of the animals and kept them in the zoo.
So another question is, what's wrong with being unique? Again,why are you trying so hard to be typical and expected when you are made to be unexpected and untypical? I watched a video recently of a woman speaking about modesty.A test was carried out on men looking at women wearing skimpily and women who dresses properly. The test was concluded that men treat women who dresses skimpily as objects while women who dresses properly as an individual. In other words, when men see you in a sexual way he sees you as a tool but not an individual.
So recently in an English Language class, my teacher wrote down the passed year questions of the English SPM papers starting from year 1997 all the way to 2012. It was all one word essays. As far as I can remember they were Stars,Food,Friends,Cleanliness,Home and ect and our job as students in exams are always nevertheless to impress the markers. My teacher pointed out how important it was to be unique in our essay. It is all about impression writing.
Uniqueness is such a harsh and scary word. Believe it or not,we are very afraid of being unique. :) For example, let's just say we meet a person with 11 fingers. For you to look at that person with 11 fingers already scares you. You may not say it out but in your head, you go "So weird.". As for the person who has 11 fingers would feels afraid and most probably ashamed of themselves.In their minds they go "I wish I was normal. ". You can deny as much as you can but that is the truth.We do judge no matter how hard we try not to.
If you really have 11 fingers,who said 11 fingers was not normal? Were we not made unique by God?
Over the years,we have gone through many many episodes of trying to be NORMAL. What is normal and who determined who is NORMAL? According to Google, Normal means typical or expected. I think I can conclude that NO HUMAN IN THIS WORLD IS NORMAL. We are always unexpected am I not right? From the era where we were nomads, we have survived and upgraded ourselves. Instead of living in caves and eaten by animals, we live in big built houses and we domesticated most of the animals and kept them in the zoo.
So another question is, what's wrong with being unique? Again,why are you trying so hard to be typical and expected when you are made to be unexpected and untypical? I watched a video recently of a woman speaking about modesty.A test was carried out on men looking at women wearing skimpily and women who dresses properly. The test was concluded that men treat women who dresses skimpily as objects while women who dresses properly as an individual. In other words, when men see you in a sexual way he sees you as a tool but not an individual.
So ladies, What makes you unique? Is it the way you dress, the way you speak or is it the way you lead your life? Would you rather having yourself treated sexually as a tool by men or would you rather be treated with respect and love? Is your uniqueness based on physical, mental or both? Which would you prefer most?If you still insist then are you ready to be treated as a tool?
Without forgetting the men, What kind of unique are you searching for in women?
Love,
Button :)
Ps : The video is really very educational. Do check it out. :)) And oh, Picture picture :P Btw, I would still want to wear a bikini though. :P At least once in my life before I die old and saggy. :P MUAHAHAH!
Be Unique. Be Yourself. Be Happy. Be Loving. Be with God. Be Free. :)
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